Tuesday, 7 January 2014

~bahasa pun kena cantik jugak, bukan muka aje!~

Lama nyer tak menjengah entry..huhu..biasalah bila mood nak menulis tu takde, mmg kerajinan tangan aku utk menaip tu tak terserlah la jawabnye..hehe

Cuba tgk title, that's the thing i wanna share with uolz. 
Aku suka observe ragam org disekeliling. It did entertain me. Menghiburkan? Yes! But please, do not think in a negative way, tau! :)
Actually, there's a lot i can learn from them; in terms of their characters, behaviors, body languages, etc. oopss not to forget their fashion too..hehe

Hmm..but...
It's kinda sad when i went outing with family or friends or even alone. 
Why? 
Because when i heard their conversation (not meant to eavesdropping them ok but they talked loud, so either i like it or not, my ears heard them..huhu) the words that came out from their mouth....too HARSH ok!
Allahuakhbar! <geleng kepala 3x>

tak kira la lelaki ke perempuan..both are the same.. aku tak ckp semua org mcm tu but there are certain people, u know, talking few words that are NOT so nice to hear! Even when they talked 'harsh words', every word that comes out, meant nothing to them at all. mcm tak rasa bersalah lansung. Lagi seronok ada la! Kononnya rasa puas hati lepas ckp perkataan2 yg tak baik tu.. 

Mengumpat.Mengata.Mengutuk.Mencacicerca.Memfitnah. 
-5M- ni mmg sah2 berDOSA yer kwn-kwn!!!
(kindly refer to Al-Hujurat:11-12 and some hadith Rasulullah pasal bahaya lidah ni)

Yg aku dengar & nampak ni adalah di kalangan org dewasa, remaja even budak-budak;
bila melatah @ marah @ suka2 pun ada yg keluarkan perkataan yg tak enak didengar. Sampai dah jadi TABIAT@HABIT!

Astaghfirullahal'adzim..Banyakkan istighfar kwn2..Your words, indeed, reflect u! That's why BUDI BAHASA BUDAYA KITA! Not only represents the Malaysian culture but also it mirrors ISLAM!

Firman Allah S.W.T;
Maksudnya: "Allah Yang Maha Pemurah, yang telah mengajarkan al-Qur'an. Allah telah menciptakan manusia, mengajarnya berbicara (menerangkan sesuatu cetusan daripada fikiran dan perasaannya)". 
(Surah Ar-Rahman : 1-4)

Sebab tu nikmat kebolehan bercakap ni wajib dihargai, disyukuri dan digunakan dengan sebaik-baiknya mengikut landasan syarak. Islam dah gariskan tatacara yg terbaik utk menggunakan lidah yg sentiasa mengungkaikan kalimah-kalimah agar setiap butiran bicara tersebut mendapat keredhaan Allah.

Jadi, kalau tgk local@international films@dramaseries@cartoons or dengar international music ke jgn la pergi ikut budaya percakapan yg tak baik tu..takde faedah pun!

Rasulullah S.A.W bersabda;
"Sesungguhnya seorang hamba Allah mengucapkan satu perkataan yang dibenci Allah ia tidak ambil hirau, menyebabkan dia terjerumus ke dalam api neraka (jahanam)."
(Hadis riwat Bukhari)
Astaghfirullahal'adzim..Semoga kita tidak termasuk dlm golongan yg terjerumus ke dlm neraka ni. Na'uzubillah..
Jadi...utk yg dah terbiasa ckp 'perkataan' tu, ubahlah kpd yg lebih baik. jgn biar adik2 kita follow the wrong examples. kalo yg mmg melatah tu, cubalah sedaya upaya bila melatah je sebut ALLAH. dpt jugak pahala. hehe. 

Nak tau tak mcm mana nak jaga lidah ni?
Haaaaa..cara dia dah diajar oleh Nabi kita Muhammad Rasulullah S.A.W melalui penyaksian Ummul Mukminin Aisyah yang berkata;
"Sesungguhnya Rasulullah sentiasa berzikir kepada Allah setiap saat." 
(Hadis riwayat Muslim)

Bilamana kita sibukkan lidah dan hati kita ni dengan zikrullah, in shaa Allah, kedua-duanya takkan sempat nak buat maksiat yakni keje yg tak berfaedah :)

Apa tunggu lagi?
Tahun baru Azam baru Semangat baru!
Sekian, peace no war!~

Sunday, 22 September 2013

Life is not same as what we wish for???

Who plan our life? Yes, we are! Indeed, we've lots of dreams to achieve, thus we arrange and plan our own journey. The path that we choose, full of hope, in which we wish it will be colorful exactly like we pattern it. But, things that we plan doesn't mean it will happen according to what we wish for. In fact, the decision is not in our hands. It's beyond our power because Allah is the Ultimate Decision Maker. And that is what we called it as FATE.

We did upset if the fate doesn't take our side. However, have we realized that if we got what we wished before will make us happy? To some extent, yes! We might be happy. But it won't be long. Maybe? Why? Who knows?

We, actually, don't have to be upset if the path that we chose doesn't go as what we plan. Why? Because something that happens might be the best for us even we don't like it. That's HIS promise!! Journey that we've chosen, just take it as a beautiful experience in your life. The experience that makes you become stronger than the 'old' you. The experience that born the 'new' you. In fact, there'll be ups and downs in your life but those will make your world become more beautiful.

At least, it shows that you are brave enough to take risk in your life. Every opportunity that you have taken means that you are brave to face it even you don't even know either you succeed or fail. But still, you wouldn't let it go. You have tried your best to gain it. And you know what? You will be satisfied of what you have done because you've given all sweats into it even it's not yours till the end.

Why? Because you deserve better than that. That's why don't be sad for everything that's not ours. Allah's plan is the best plan and the best thing ever happen to you. Therefore, be grateful for what you got. Don't give up. Accept the qada' & qadar. Either it's a "nikmat" or a "test". Just be a grateful vicegerent!

You wouldn't see the "hikmah" behind it until that "day" comes to you. And believe me, when the time comes, you'll realize the "hikmah" by yourself...


-CempakaSari@CS-

Saturday, 23 February 2013

Salam ukhuwah...

Alhamdulillah. I'm still breathing and alive because of Him. Praise be to Allah, the Most Merciful and Gracious. May Allah shower us with His Blessings dunya wal akhirah, in shaa Allah.

Assalamu'alaikum & Hi to you!! Yes, you peeps, bloggers, viewers and friends!!~
This is my first time writing a blog, indeed. Do support and guide me:)
It'd be my pleasure to learn from u guys (^_^).
Actually, I've been planning to create a blog since long time before.
Alhamdulillah, FINALLY i have one!! Yeah!!
Okay, i cakap macam susah jer nak sign up for a blog kan... hahaha~

Alright, time to introduce myself..^_^
i'm new, fresh and bright blogger. a vicegerent of Allah. my parents' precious daughter. future wife to my imam. a cute sister to my lovely siblings. someone's relative and  friend. i'd like to be known as CempakaSari. i'm not a full-time blogger. i'm here because i'd like to write. write about what?
anything that i want to write la..hehehe~

i'd be really really glad and honored to be friends with people who want to be friends with me:-)
May our friendship last till Jannah, in shaa Allah.

salam ukhuwah & see you soon!